Reneé Rapp's latest single explores the complexities of a relationship where her partner seems to prefer being upset rather than intimate. The song's lyrics highlight Rapp's frustration and confusion, questioning why her partner chooses negativity over physical connection. The central line, "We could've been having sex," encapsulates the song's theme of missed opportunities and the perplexing dynamic of choosing conflict over intimacy. The song is already generating buzz for its relatable message and Rapp's honest portrayal of relationship struggles.